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I remember that when we were young, old people used to teach us that it was a blessing to suffer losses.

until getting older, after experiencing some human feelings, many people no longer believe this sentence.

it's just that sometimes, that's not always the case.

Li Shutong said: "he who can suffer is a man of will, but he who is willing to suffer losses is not a fool."

those who are willing to suffer losses do not take up all the goodness, and have reason to give way to one-third of the goodness.

losing money with a smile is not stupidity, but a higher intelligence.

does not take advantage of others, it is a kind of kindness

once, Ma Weidu went to the countryside with his friends and bought an antique Kang table at a high price at the home of a fellow-villager who entertained them for dinner.

when he returned to Beijing to find an expert for appraisal, he found that it was an antique of great value. Ma Weidu felt sorry that he had earned too much, so he asked someone to send some money to his fellow villager's home.

not only that, but on weekdays, Ma Weidu does not take advantage of those vendors who have just joined the industry, they all give them a suitable price and take the initiative to increase some more to give profits to each other.

some people laughed that he couldn't do business, and he said half-jokingly:

"if you think about it the other way around, everyone must be willing to do business with the bad guys, so I can make a lot of money."

it is precisely because of his kindness that Ma Weidu is very popular in the collection world.

in life, there are always people who think that it is a fool not to take advantage of it, so they never forget to make a calculation.

Guo Degang's crosstalk once vividly described people who love to take advantage:

take a taxi to grab the back seat, because it is usually paid by the front seat;

go to the bathroom and take off your clothes quickly, and get dressed slowly, because you usually come out first, so check out first.

go to the bathroom after dinner, and when you come out of the bathroom, others will already pay the bill.

people who play tricks seem to take advantage everywhere, but in fact the loss outweighs the gain.

because people get along with others, what they see is sincerity and conscience.

if a person has too many abacus, for a long time, he will be excluded and alienated and lose the sincerity of others.

"Han Feizi said Lin": "it is better to cheat than to be honest."

people who are kind and honest tend to gain more trust and respect, and the road is getting wider and wider.

regardless of losses, it is a kind of kindness

Mr. Mei Lanfang, a master of Beijing Opera, is not only good at singing, but also famous for his painting skills, so he has also attracted counterfeiters.

once, a small newspaper published an advertisement with the words "artist Mei Lanfang sells paintings".

A discerning person knows at a glance that it is a fake, and his friends are so angry that they plan to find out the impostor and teach him a lesson.

Mei Lanfang hurriedly stopped it and said:

"this man must have some ability to make money by selling paintings. He is probably just an unlucky scholar." It's better to find out the whole story before making a decision. "

as soon as my friends asked about it, it was a helpless move by a fallen literati.

when Mei Lanfang learned of this, she not only did not pursue the matter, but also sent some money and goods to help.

the other party was ashamed to see such a large number of Mei Lanfang, so he put away the sign of "Mei Lanfang".

it is only natural and reasonable to fight for the interests you deserve.

but it is not easy to be considerate of others, regardless of losses, it is kind in the heart.

once saw a heart-warming news:

A woman accidentally scraped a new car when she was riding a bike to buy candy with her children.

she took the initiative to call the police and asked for compensation. when the owner learned that the woman was poor and raised two children alone, he only took a candy from the woman's hand, said, "just give me one candy" and drove away.

kind people are soft at heart and are always considerate of others.

it's not that they don't care, but they don't want to care.

I have heard such a saying: "the height of life is not how many things you see clearly, but how many things you despise."

in daily interpersonal communication, it is inevitable to bump into friction, care too much about gains and losses, and haggle over pennies, which will only make others tired and suffer themselves.

for some things, forget about it; for some losses, just eat it.

regardless of losses, it is not to give up one's own interests without principle, but to divide the matter into different sizes and adopt timely measures.

regardless of losses, it is not weakness that can be deceived, but the experience of the world, knowing that everyone has their own difficulties and helplessness.

so he learned to compare his heart to heart, no longer criticize others or embarrass himself, and is willing to turn big things into small things, and then turn small things into "forget it".

after all, it is convenient for others as well as for yourself.

he who loses with a smile has nothing to lose

the writer Achnatherum splendens shared a story that perfectly interpreted this sentence:

Are you getting impatient when looking for a beautiful and sturdy empire style wedding dresses now? We have a huge selection of cuts and styles to choose from.

there is a lady, the unit is divided into houses, assigned to the third floor.

an eldest sister in the unit wants to change the fifth floor she has drawn because her husband has bad legs and feet.

leaders from the first floor

asked about the third floor, no one was willing to change it.

asked the lady here, she thought about it a little and agreed.

she feels that she is still young.Light, the child is also getting older slowly, there is no big problem to climb the fifth floor. But the eldest sister's father-in-law is disabled, so it is really inconvenient to live on the fifth floor.

the eldest sister is grateful for the change of house and often looks after her children in her spare time.

A few years later, the unit had an opportunity to go to England for further study, and the leader gave the opportunity to the lady without saying a word.

my colleagues were so unconvinced that the leader asked, "did you take it when I asked you to change the house?"

the lady was even more surprised. She didn't expect that she "suffered a loss" unexpectedly in exchange for such a big "cheap".

many things in the world have two sides.

get some on this side, lose some on the other side, give up some, and gain some.

there is a good saying: "small wealth is enough to gather people, and quantity is wide enough to get people."

suffer a little loss, give way to others, win the hearts of the people, but also gain peace.

benefit others, in fact, is also self-interest, suffer losses, but also save blessings.

therefore, those who want to take advantage everywhere cannot take advantage of much, while those who laugh and suffer losses often have nothing to lose.

those who suffer losses with a smile are all smart people

Master Nebula once said, "those who are good can give up, and those who are wise dare to give up."

A person is not afraid of losing, or even takes the initiative to laugh at it, which looks a little silly.

is not only a kind of wisdom that is given up first, but also a kind of self-cultivation of being kind to others.

small wisdom is skillful, and great wisdom is foolish.

he who loses with a smile is a wise man.