The way you ate exposed your marriage.
The way you ate exposed your marriage.
One vegetable, one meal, all life, one spoonful of food, all love.

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there is a scene in the classic movie the Godfather:

while Mike and his men were talking about the gang, Mike's sister said something to him:

"Father never talks about 'business' in front of his children at the dinner table."

I was puzzled when I saw this scene at first, until Mike's father, the old godfather Corleone, said himself:

"A man can be swords and swords outside, but the dining table is the holy place of life. As long as you sit in front of your family, all you have to do is to play the role of your loving father and good husband, and give your family warmth and happiness."

A seemingly ordinary dining table is often the epitome of family temperature and marriage.

the truth of feelings, not elsewhere, lives among the fireworks of porridge and rice.

how's the marriage?

you can tell by watching two people eat

A meal can lead to thousands of things, as long as you set your mind to it.

Auntie is from Sichuan and likes spicy food, while uncle has a preference for sweet food.

when I first got married, there was a big difference in eating habits.

so they both learned their favorite food for each other and agreed to cook a dish for each other from time to time.

according to my aunt, because my uncle could not eat spicy food at that time, he always took two tablets of gunpowder after dinner.

after a long run-in, they finally adapted to each other's tastes and reaped surprise and sweetness in the process of compromise and giving.

the breakup of many marriages is not caused by one party's cheating or major changes, but more by the daily necessities of life.

complain in trifles, disappoint in trivialities, and die in trivialities.

and the so-called truth, hidden in the details of life, it does not need Tian Chang Di Jiu (Eternal Dumpling) love words to decorate, only need real action.

whether the marriage is good or not can be seen by the way two people eat.

the smoke and fire in the world is the most appealing to the hearts of the people

now many young people brag about the so-called "trendy" marital status:

the kitchen is gorgeously decorated but never opens fire;

eat out and order takeout to fill three meals;

"I am responsible for making money to support my family, and you are responsible for clothing, food, housing and transportation";


either lose the fireworks or make the marriage "clear".

Sanmao once said: love is not easy to Tian Chang Di Jiu (Eternal Dumpling) if it is not implemented in real life such as dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping.

famous program host Li Yong, the greatest ambition is "wife and children hot Kang head". Every time Ha Wen is busy with food in the kitchen, he says that he is waiting for "drooling".

Huang Lei has made a lot of invitations in television and movies in recent years, which can be said to be a bumper harvest in the career season. But he still insisted on going home and cooking for himself.

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his wife Sun Li does not know how to cook, and in his eyes it is a kind of loveliness. During Sun Li's pregnancy, Huang Lei concentrated on studying recipes and changed patterns to cook delicious food for her. In the end, both of them gained a lot of weight.

the relationship between husband and wife is actually very simple.

A room for two and three meals for four seasons is the best confession; eating with a loved one every day is the best companionship.

one vegetable, one meal, all life, one spoonful of food, all love.

the rest of my life

be with people who eat well

if you look at the interaction between Mr. Qian Zhongshu and Mr. Yang Jiang, you will be moved by the small details on the dinner table.

when Yang Jiang accompanied Qian Zhongshu to study in England, she was not used to it when she was a newcomer.

after gently waking Yang Jiang, set a small table on the bed and put breakfast on the table so that Yang Jiang can have breakfast in bed.

the best marriage is "have you to accompany me to stand at dusk, have you to ask me porridge can warm".

Life is short. Find someone who can warm your stomach and soul, and life will become clear and lovely.

after many years, I may forget many beautiful moments of marriage, but the busy figure in the kitchen can always be clear.

eat rice, warm your heart.

Lin Qingxuan said: "Romantic means wasting time eating slowly, wasting time slowly drinking tea, wasting time walking slowly, wasting time getting old slowly."

the dining table is not only a fireworks, but also a place to manage feelings. In marriage, there are not so many storms. Three meals a day is spiritual practice.

maybe we are busy running around all our lives, just to find someone who can help each other in the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt, cook together at the dinner table, eat well, love each other seriously and grow old.

that will be enough.