The more you care, what will torture you.
The more you care, what will torture you.
Life is a passer-by, there is no need for thousands of knots.

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there is a sentence in "Cai Gentan" that touches my heart:

"the heart of a gentleman begins to appear when things come, and when things go, the heart goes empty."

the things in life are nothing but karma, and the gains and losses of honor and disgrace are all in our state of mind.

all circumstances are created by the mind, and troubles are created by the mind.

what you care too much, what will torture you, what you care about, what will bother you.

the annoyance of the people is bothering

there is a saying: "the world is not dusty, the sea is not bitter, he suffers from the dust."

all troubles arise from the heart, and most of the troubles in life come from the calculation in the heart.

in many cases, the more you care about gains and losses, the more painful you will be, and the more you care about right or wrong, the more tired you will be.

the supreme wisdom of adults in dealing with the world is not to care about things, and to always be forgiving.

once read such a story in a book.

A neighbor hid dozens of pieces of cloth at Grandma's house. Grandma decided to help because she was worried about her neighbor.

later, the villagers advised grandma to hand over the cloth, and grandma obeyed her neighbor's instructions and refused to say anything. even if she didn't eat a meal or drink a mouthful of water all day, she only wanted to save the neighbor's family.

unexpectedly, many years later, the neighbor unexpectedly told the story of grandma helping his family hide cloth.

Grandma was so angry that her lips were purple.

but after the incident, Grandma was very open-minded, knowing that her nature was not bad, and she didn't care about her.

Grandma understands their sufferings. "it's not easy to have five children in the family."

is also aware of their inner suffering. "it's enough for her to hate herself. A person who betrays her conscience is like having a heart attack. Her heart stops beating, and she suffers from it."

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when I saw this, I realized that Grandma's "foolishness" was actually a pattern brewed by the years.

there is a saying that life is like chess, you need overall vision when you play chess, and it is the same with life.

Life needs to be calm and magnificent, not to be bothered by temporary right and wrong.

in many cases, it is not a loss to ignore it. If you take a step back, you seem to be letting others go, but you are actually forgiving yourself.

the bitterness of life lies in persistence

the Buddha said that the three great sufferings of life: resentment, love and parting, but cannot be asked for.

everything cannot go well in life, and it is normal to ask for it but not to do it.

the bitterness of life lies in persistence.

most of the time, it is not necessarily brave not to hit the south wall and not to turn back, but to turn in time is great wisdom.

Thoreau, the author of Walden, who is popular all over the world, did not go well before the age of 28.

he volunteered to work as an inspector, surveyor and wind and sun inspector in a small town, but he was never able to get public office.

he and his brother fell in love with a girl at the same time. He tore his heart in every way and even wanted to give up love, but the girl abandoned them and threw herself into the arms of others.

later, my brother died of a serious illness, and the poor young man became nothing in his life of doing nothing.

under heavy pressure, he had a serious illness, and after three months he recovered, he went to Walden Lake with an axe to live in seclusion.

he built a cabin there, following the laws of nature, working at sunrise and ending at sunset.

at first, he felt that he desperately needed a neighbor. Later, he began to enjoy the freedom brought by loneliness.

he immerses himself in the environment around him, talks with trees, listens to the whispers of the wind, cares about food and vegetables, and focuses on every plant and tree in his life.

the vast and lonely earth injected deep strength into his body.

in the simple life of sleeping on the rise of the moon and rising at sunrise, he gradually let go of his past obsession with personnel.

he regards the pain caused by writing as "reward itself". Without public office, he can enjoy the freedom of his soul in the serenity of solitude.

things that can't be done, and people who can't stay, are just a fleeting spray in the long river of life.

he put down all his persistence and touched the true meaning of life in physical and mental peace.

later, Thoreau wrote his own experiences and feelings as Walden.

many years later, this poetic and philosophical travels of life shocked the literary world.

has always liked the saying that if things go against one's wishes, there must be other plans.

Life is often lost, and what is lost here will be gained in another way.

change your mind, turn a corner, and your life will suddenly become clear.

look down on honor and disgrace, be calm; look down on gains and losses, be at ease.

to put aside your obsession and make peace with life is not only the treasure of life, but also the perfection of yourself.

the difficulty of life is to let go

read a story.

there is a rich man, carrying a big burden, full of all kinds of things, is going to go out to play.

he walked across mountains and rivers for a long time, but he felt that he had never experienced the joy of the journey.

the rich man went on and off, too tired to straighten up because of the heavy baggage. Occasionally, he met a farmer.

he complained to the farmer, "obviously I am a rich man who everyone envies and I have walked such a long way. Why can't I find happiness?"

the farmer said nothing, but bent down to put down the straw on his back and said to the rich man: "Do you still need to look for happiness? To put it down is to be happy! "

A simple truth has made countless people in the world of mortals unrepentant.

most of the time we feel unhappy because we are overloaded and have too many desires.

learn to let go, in order to leave rich space for life.

writer Hong Lu Peilin once said:

"if you can't give up yesterday, you will spend your life wasting your life in this moment of hesitation;

if you can't give up the present, you can't find another expanse of sky;

if you can't give up your shackles, you will always be at the mercy of your life, and you won't be able to find another space that belongs to you. "

the difficulty of life is to let it go.

things are changeable, and there are many things we can't do; people are complicated, and you can't keep many people.

Life is a passer-by, so there is no need for thousands of knots.

it is better to learn to accept the impermanence of the world.

I like Feng Zikai's passage in "suddenly enlightened":

"since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice, since there is no pure land, it is better to have a pure heart, and since there is no wish, it is better to be relieved."

Life is a journey of no return. We need to check our bags at any time and travel light.

, may your heart be clear and live a happy life.