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since ancient times, parents have loved their children earnestly.

We all hope that our son can become a dragon and a woman can become a Phoenix. On the road of life, we will have a grand vision and a bright future.

however, what kind of person a child can become depends, to some extent, on his parents.

educator Rousseau once said:

"Man's education begins when he is born. Before he can't speak and listen to others, he has already been educated. The foundation of education is family."

whether a child will succeed in the future or not is often inseparable from the influence of his family.

if the family style is good, the parents are harmonious, and the children are bound to be filial.

especially the following seven families, it is easiest to raise promising children, which is very accurate!

families that attach importance to education

the degree to which a family attaches importance to education directly determines the future life trend of their children.

the more emphasis is placed on education and cultivation, the more children can change their fate and succeed through knowledge.

in ancient times, Meng's mother moved three times, constantly looking for the best learning environment for her son's future.

Today, Wu Yi-Shu is the father of Wu Yi-Shu, who spends energy, teaches and entertains, and accompanies his daughter to read poetry and literature since childhood.

thus made a generation of sages and trained the top students of Peking University.

there is a saying in the warring States Policy: "parents' love for their children is far-reaching."

as parents, they do not have to be rich in learning, but they must firmly believe in the power of education. They should not only be the nurturing of their children on the way of growing up, but also lead the way of their education.

with this foresight, children will have more strength to ride the wind and waves and make their way up.

optimistic and positive families

writer Dickens once said:

"A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom!"

mindset is the core of a person and the cure for everything.

have a good state of mind, can calmly face the wind and rain of life, the vicissitudes of the years, so that life is full of hope.

and a person's mentality is good or bad, will be affected by the family to a large extent.

if parents are passive and lazy, children learn to be full of grievances and are bound to complain often;

if the parents are optimistic and positive, the children will be happy from an early age and take things easy.

there is a good saying: "under adversity, think about it."

truly good parents value the cultivation of their children's mentality far more than the pursuit of foreign things.

they know very well that life has a long way to go, so that children can have peace of mind, even if they live a life riddled with holes in the future.

families who love learning

once saw a problem on Zhihu:

"Why is there such a big gap between children in the same class and the same teacher?"

in the final analysis, it lies outside the school-the family.

when many parents come home, they either watch TV or play with their mobile phones. They never set an example for their children.

I don't like learning, so how can I ask my child to have a good grade?

educator Chen Baosheng once said:

"the lack of family education will not only counteract the effect of school education, but also have a negative impact on the development of children."

in the final analysis, parents' attitude towards learning is the most important love for their children, which is related to the fate of their life.

parents must shoulder this burden if they do not want their children to do nothing at school.

emotionally stable families

in the documentary Mirror, there was such a family:

the boy was so grumpy that he took action when he disagreed with each other.

once, because his mother sent him fruit to disturb the game of chess, he reached out and began to beat his mother.

later, I traced back to the source and found that it was the father's bad temper that influenced the child's character imperceptibly.

after witnessing the quarrels and fights of his parents, he also became very emotionally unstable.

Yu Minhong said:

"if parents control their emotions and communicate with their children rationally, their children must be able to develop a calm mood, so that they can face difficulties, setbacks and failures leisurely."

the course of life is long, and childhood is only a small part of it.

because they know: let the child have a stable mood and correct values, and then continue to work hard, will certainly reach their own end.

families that respect their children

what is the most important thing about being a parent?

respect and love.

this answer sounds corny and vague, but it is the golden key to solve most family conflicts and children's psychological problems.

Professor Li Meijin of the National people's Congress once said:

"A child who is not respected since childhood, who does not feel happy, will not have a healthy and sunny state of mind."

everyone has self-esteem, and children are no exception.

if they are often beaten and scolded by their parents and lectured regardless of the occasion, their children will gradually become unconfident and even dislike themselves.

only when they are respected, trusted and affirmed can they have the confidence of acceptance, which is the most important motivation for them to move forward.

A netizen said it very well:

"to train children to have their own opinions when things happen, to have their own rules in the world, and the ability to have their own goals in mind, this is the best for children.Meritorious education. "

respect is not only a "knowledge", but also a scenery of life, which is worthy of every parent to explore and appreciate. I hope that you and I can all become "respectable and elegant" parents to escort their children.

families with neat houses

although there is only a square inch in the home, it will cultivate the behavior habits of children.

so "Zhu Zi Family precepts" begins by warning children and grandchildren:

"get up at dawn, sweep the court, and be neat inside and outside."

cultivating children's ability to clean up their own rooms from an early age can not only improve their life autonomy, but also enhance their sense of self-independence.

in an imperceptible influence, children will become positive and self-disciplined and develop the good habit of not being careless, perfunctory, and having a beginning and an end.

and when a person develops good habits and has a cleaner environment, the quality of life will continue to improve in the future.

your room is your feng shui.

A person who can live a steaming, exquisite and rich life every day can feel vigorous vitality at any time.

fear not the past, not the future!

A disciplined family

since ancient times, there are no rules, no square.

rules are the most important foundation.

Liang Qichao once said:

"instead of reasoning with your children, you might as well set rules."

Children are playful and rebellious by nature. if parents blindly follow their own temperament and do not control them, they are likely to go astray.

just like six-year-old Liang Qichao, he was severely reprimanded by his normally gentle mother after lying to his mother for a trifle.

from then on, his mother laid down the rule of "no lies" for him.

there is a sentence in the book Family Education:

"Freedom with rules is called liveliness, and freedom without rules is presumptuous."

if the family has no rules, the children will have no principles.

people who have no principles, most of them lack awe of things and are not disciplined, so it is naturally difficult to achieve success.

the rest of life is long, and children still have a long way to go in the future. what they need is lofty goals, the right direction, and guidance along the way, all of which only their parents can afford.

in life, the Pony, the Golden House and the thousand-hour millet are not as important as raising a good child.

educating good children is the most precious asset for parents in this life.

remember that the mother of Wu Yi-Shu, a talented girl, once said:

"genius does not exist.

any good child is not a miracle born out of thin air, but a cause and effect that can be followed.

its cause is in the family. Its roots are in the parents. "

parents can become better parents only if they become the best of themselves.

May you and I both understand, and then grow up with our children and nourish each other.

thus made a generation of sages and trained the top students of Peking University.

there is a saying in the warring States Policy: "parents' love for their children is far-reaching."

as parents, they do not have to be rich in learning, but they must firmly believe in the power of education. They should not only be the nurturing of their children on the way of growing up, but also lead the way of their education.

with this foresight, children will have more strength to ride the wind and waves and make their way up.

optimistic and positive families

writer Dickens once said:

"A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom!"

mindset is the core of a person and the cure for everything.

have a good state of mind, can calmly face the wind and rain of life, the vicissitudes of the years, so that life is full of hope.

and a person's mentality is good or bad, will be affected by the family to a large extent.

if parents are passive and lazy, children learn to be full of grievances and are bound to complain often;

if the parents are optimistic and positive, the children will be happy from an early age and take things easy.

there is a good saying: "under adversity, think about it."

truly good parents value the cultivation of their children's mentality far more than the pursuit of foreign things.

they know very well that life has a long way to go, so that children can have peace of mind, even if they live a life riddled with holes in the future.

families who love learning

once saw a problem on Zhihu:

"Why is there such a big gap between children in the same class and the same teacher?"

in the final analysis, it lies outside the school-the family.

when many parents come home, they either watch TV or play with their mobile phones. They never set an example for their children.

I don't like learning, so how can I ask my child to have a good grade?

educator Chen Baosheng once said:

"the lack of family education will not only counteract the effect of school education, but also have a negative impact on the development of children."

in the final analysis, parents' attitude towards learning is the most important love for their children, which is related to the fate of their life.

parents must shoulder this burden if they do not want their children to do nothing at school.

emotionally stable families

in the documentary Mirror, there was such a family:

the boy was so grumpy that he took action when he disagreed with each other.

once, because his mother sent him fruit to disturb the game of chess, he reached out and began to beat his mother.

later, I traced back to the source and found that it was the father's bad temper that influenced the child's character imperceptibly.

after witnessing the quarrels and fights of his parents, he also became very emotionally unstable.

Yu Minhong said:

"if parents control their emotions and communicate with their children rationally, their children must be able to develop a calm mood, so that they can face difficulties, setbacks and failures leisurely."

the course of life is long, and childhood is only a small part of it.

because they know: let the child have a stable mood and correct values, and then continue to work hard, will certainly reach their own end.

families that respect their children

what is the most important thing about being a parent?

respect and love.

this answer sounds corny and vague, but it is the golden key to solve most family conflicts and children's psychological problems.

Professor Li Meijin of the National people's Congress once said:

"A child who is not respected since childhood, who does not feel happy, will not have a healthy and sunny state of mind."

everyone has self-esteem, and children are no exception.

if they are often beaten and scolded by their parents and lectured regardless of the occasion, their children will gradually become unconfident and even dislike themselves.

only when they are respected, trusted and affirmed can they have the confidence of acceptance, which is the most important motivation for them to move forward.

A netizen said it very well:

"to train children to have their own opinions when things happen, to have their own rules in the world, and the ability to have their own goals in mind, this is the best for children.Meritorious education. "

respect is not only a "knowledge", but also a scenery of life, which is worthy of every parent to explore and appreciate. I hope that you and I can all become "respectable and elegant" parents to escort their children.

families with neat houses

although there is only a square inch in the home, it will cultivate the behavior habits of children.

so "Zhu Zi Family precepts" begins by warning children and grandchildren:

"get up at dawn, sweep the court, and be neat inside and outside."

cultivating children's ability to clean up their own rooms from an early age can not only improve their life autonomy, but also enhance their sense of self-independence.

in an imperceptible influence, children will become positive and self-disciplined and develop the good habit of not being careless, perfunctory, and having a beginning and an end.

and when a person develops good habits and has a cleaner environment, the quality of life will continue to improve in the future.

your room is your feng shui.

A person who can live a steaming, exquisite and rich life every day can feel vigorous vitality at any time.

fear not the past, not the future!

A disciplined family

since ancient times, there are no rules, no square.

rules are the most important foundation.

Liang Qichao once said:

"instead of reasoning with your children, you might as well set rules."

Children are playful and rebellious by nature. if parents blindly follow their own temperament and do not control them, they are likely to go astray.

just like six-year-old Liang Qichao, he was severely reprimanded by his normally gentle mother after lying to his mother for a trifle.

from then on, his mother laid down the rule of "no lies" for him.

there is a sentence in the book Family Education:

"Freedom with rules is called liveliness, and freedom without rules is presumptuous."

if the family has no rules, the children will have no principles.

people who have no principles, most of them lack awe of things and are not disciplined, so it is naturally difficult to achieve success.

the rest of life is long, and children still have a long way to go in the future. what they need is lofty goals, the right direction, and guidance along the way, all of which only their parents can afford.

in life, the Pony, the Golden House and the thousand-hour millet are not as important as raising a good child.

educating good children is the most precious asset for parents in this life.

remember that the mother of Wu Yi-Shu, a talented girl, once said:

"genius does not exist.

any good child is not a miracle born out of thin air, but a cause and effect that can be followed.

its cause is in the family. Its roots are in the parents. "

parents can become better parents only if they become the best of themselves.

May you and I both understand, and then grow up with our children and nourish each other.