Say things softly and do things hard (depth)
Say things softly and do things hard (depth)
Neither humble nor arrogant, never forget the original ideal and ambition.

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National School of Nanshi

A gentleman wants to be slow in words and quick in deeds.

words are the shadow of actions, and words are pictures of the soul.

there are only two kinds of communication in the world, one is soft against the hard, the other is hard against hard.

talk like water, communicate patiently, have a sincere attitude, moisten things silently, such as a spring breeze.

We should do things like mountains, take a firm stand, not arrogant or impetuous, safe and powerful, and daring.

talk like water, be "soft"

psychologist Daniel Gorman said in EQ:

"the degree to which you are comfortable determines the height you can reach."

in his early years, Zeng Guofan was outspoken, proud and lost many friends.

in the course of being targeted at his official career, Zeng Guofan made up his mind to speak well.

after reflection and enlightenment, when communicating with others, he took care of other people's emotions, was kind, modest and considerate, and gradually became good at officialdom.

"A gentleman does not lose his footing, lose his face, or lose his tongue."

A reporter once asked Wang Han:

"who is the first elder brother of Hunan TV station, you and he Jing?


Wang Han gave a textbook standard answer: "of course Mr. he is the first elder brother, and I am his eldest brother."

this answer not only gives he Jiao enough face, but also shows that the two are very close brothers, and there is no "first brother dispute".

people with high EQ talk like water, do not choke, do not need to be aggressive, but have the power of dripping water to wear stones to resolve all embarrassment.

having a talking mouth is a precious asset in life.

do things like a mountain, be "hard"

"Don't be greedy for money, don't break your promise, and don't be yourself. With these three, natural ghosts obey God Qin, and people everywhere respect them."

Zeng Guofan has been asking himself this all the time.

the officials below gave him gifts, and he didn't want to break the rules or reject people, so he chose the most inconspicuous gift from everyone.

at a banquet, his subordinates were commenting on several generals of the court.

some people say: "Zuo Shuai is strict, people dare not deceive; Li Shuai Ming, people cannot be deceived."

Zeng Guofan asked with interest, "can you also give me an evaluation?"

one of his subordinates whispered, "Zeng Gongren, people can't bear to be deceived."

people who are really "capable" are not people in all aspects, but people who uphold principles.

Zeng Guofan always treats people with sincerity and deeds, which is hard to disagree with.

A man without principle and will, like a ship without a rudder and compass, will change his direction at any time with the change of the wind.

only if you are more tough after thousands of trials and let the wind from east, west, north and south, have the ability to be strong and work hard, you will not become a mediocre person who goes with the tide.

strong and soft, invincible

do not act willfully, do not speak freely.

A kind word is warmer than cloth; a hurtful word is deeper than a spear.

"knife mouth and tofu heart" is not necessarily a commendatory word, or even a stupid move.

most of the time, language is a sharp weapon, which can be invisible.

people who "fall on both sides of the wall" will not have true friends, often walk by the river, may not get wet shoes, the environment is only an external cause for a person, if the inner bottom line is broken, the person is the most difficult to turn back.

IQ determines the height a person can reach.

EQ determines how far this person can go in the end.

there is no good luck or casual success in this world. Every part of your luck and popularity is virtually saved by yourself.

talk like water, seriously express their true feelings, but also considerate, gentle words, know how to measure.

do things like a mountain, have the ability, have the principle, have the bottom line, refuse to be the good old man blindly.

neither humble nor arrogant, never forget the original ideal and ambition.

such people will be invincible with strength and softness.