Really smart people: do not listen to others, do not regard people as short, do not talk about people's mistakes!
Really smart people: do not listen to others, do not regard people as short, do not talk about people's mistakes!
Show mercy under the mouth and have a kind heart in order to bring good luck to yourself.

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as the ancients said, "if you are virtuous, you will be virtuous; if you are virtuous, you will not lose virtue."

in life, watch your mouth, guard your heart, don't talk about right and wrong, don't expose other people's weaknesses, and don't make too much publicity about other people's mistakes.

the ancients said: the mouth can spit roses, but also can spit thistles.

the power of language is great. It can warm people's hearts and chill people's hearts.

the highest accomplishment of a person is to be indifferent to others, not to regard others as short, not to say mistakes, and to be cautious in words and deeds.

whoever says that a person is right or wrong must be a non-human being

as the saying goes, "it is better to keep the middle than to speak much and count the poor."

sometimes, if you talk too much, you may get yourself into an awkward situation, so you might as well be modest and silent and bury your words at the bottom of your heart.

the greatest ability of a wise man is not to speak.

and those who are eloquent and like to gossip must also be the right and wrong people who like to fabricate facts.

after burning the A Fang Palace, Xiang Yu ordered the army to return to Jiangdong immediately, thinking that he must show off his great achievements to the Jiangdong elders.

at that time, one of Xiang Yu's advisers met Xiang Yu and said, "King of Chu, Guanzhong is an important strategic place at present." Don't leave easily! "

Xiang Yu, king of Chu, was so conceited that he listened to

the advice of not going in to the counselor.

and the counselor was displeased to see that Xiang Yu did not take his own advice.

once, while chatting with others, the counselor said, "the people of Chu are like monkeys in clothes, and they like to show off everywhere when they are happy."

who knew that this word finally reached Xiang Yu, who was furious when he heard this, and immediately ordered the counselor to be executed.

where there are people, there is right and wrong. In life, many contradictions are caused by gossiping.

those who like to gossip are full of slander and jealousy, speculate on other people's thoughts and label others wantonly.

you know: your words of right and wrong will one day be spread to the ears of the parties concerned.

those who say that people are right and wrong will not benefit themselves at the expense of others. Needless to say, it is not only the most fundamental self-cultivation, but also a kind of wisdom of life.

knowing people but not judging others is the best person

there is a saying in Daojing: "those who know do not speak, those who speak do not know."

Wise people don't talk nonsense, while those who speak casually often have no real ability.

when people get along with others, they don't have to talk too much about other people's private affairs, and more often they should consider each other's feelings.

the expression of wisdom is to speak carefully and do things carefully.

Zhu Yuanzhang, the great ancestor of the Ming Dynasty, herded cattle at the landlord's house before he became emperor.

one day, two of his young playmates came to him and wanted him to give him a part-time job.

one of them called Zhu Yuanzhang by his nickname "Zhu Laosi" as soon as he saw Zhu Yuanzhang, and talked loudly about the embarrassing story of cooking green beans with Zhu Yuanzhang when he was a child.

when Zhu Yuanzhang heard these words in front of civil and military officials, he was furious and shouted, "where did this madman come from? get him out of here!"

when another person saw it, he immediately kowtowed and said, "do you remember, your Majesty?" When Xiaomin followed you, we hijacked General Dou in the middle. "

this man said implicitly and beautifully about Zhu Yuanzhang's embarrassing story at that time. When Zhu Yuanzhang heard this, Zhu Yuanzhang also felt proud and excited, so he made this old friend the head of the Imperial Army.

talking in public about private matters that others do not want to mention is the most disgusting and self-inflicted behavior.

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when we talk to people, not revealing their weaknesses and not talking about others is the most basic self-cultivation. Leaving leeway for others is also giving us a way out.

be merciful and kind-hearted in order to bring good luck to yourself.

talk about others, talk about yourself first, and know others before you know yourself

as an old saying goes, "he who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise."

he who can understand and know others is wise, and he who can know and know himself is a wise person.

be sure to take a good look at yourself before blaming others.

there is such a story:

the owner took a mop to mop the floor.

but it can't be cleaned after dragging for a long time, and the floor is still dirty.

the mop said angrily to the floor, "Why are you so dirty? I've tried so hard to mop it up."

the floor looked at the mop and said, "you want me to be clean, you have to wash yourself first!"

the mop looked down at himself. He was very ashamed. It was not that the floor was not clean, but that he was dirty.

examine yourself first when blaming others. Only when you are good enough can you have the capital to evaluate others.

constantly examine yourself, understand your shortcomings, accept with an open mind, not proud, not complacent, in order to better cultivate yourself.

everyone has a past that they don't want to talk about. If these things are told, they will undoubtedly hurt others deeply and may also bring disaster to themselves.

so, you must speak with moderation, what to say, what to say.It should not be said that we should weigh the pros and cons in mind and avoid the trouble brought to us by the argument of words.

do not listen to others, do not regard people as short, do not talk about their faults, for themselves, is the highest level of self-cultivation, for others, is the greatest relief.