Behind all punctuality and trustworthiness lies a person's sense of responsibility and responsibility.
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in many times, we judge whether a person is worth working with, deep acquaintance, and trust, the most basic thing is whether he is reliable.
whether a person has a high educational background, strong ability and cleverness is the second, but it is very important to keep one's word, do things according to one's word, and one's character is not afraid of counting.
Reliability sounds like a casual feeling, but it is a real principle to do it.
Don't put things off
A friend mentioned to me the other day that he was very busy at work at the end of the year, but the busier he was, the more he couldn't stand people who fell off the chain at work.
it turned out that this year, she received a notice from the head office in advance, asking her to submit the year-end summary report as soon as possible, so she immediately informed Xiao Wang, a colleague in the department, to give some important sales data early tomorrow morning.
Xiao Wang got the call and said it was no problem.
but when a friend urged her to give the data the next day, Xiao Wang stumbled and said that when she received the call yesterday, it was already three or four o'clock in the afternoon, and at the end of the day, the data had not yet been counted, so she went home first.
my friend said that he was angry at that time, and Xiao Wang's problem was not whether to work that extra hour or two, but that he didn't take his work seriously at all.
sometimes it's easy to be reliable. You just need to do what needs to be done and finish what needs to be done.
sometimes it's hard to be reliable, because when you don't care enough and don't pay enough attention, you procrastinate and slack off.
logical thinking CEO can not take off, once said a thing.
she has an acquaintance, a columnist, who suddenly found out she was pregnant shortly after signing up for an audio lecture on a platform.
at that time, I advised her to stop first. You can announce the stop and wait for your body to adjust before continuing. The user can understand.
but this columnist feels that since he has promised, he cannot easily break the contract, which is irresponsible to the platform.
so in order to take care of his health and take care of his work, the author unexpectedly thought of a way to keep his body in bed.
then her doctoral students record the text, sort it out, and then record it, which ensures that the course is updated normally and continuously.
Li Ka-shing once said, "people who do things must be reliable, and smart people can only chat."
in fact, the so-called reliability is nothing more than that you can rest assured of what others have told you.
Don't break your promise easily, don't procrastinate easily, it's easy to say, but complicated to fall down. Because behind all punctuality and trustworthiness, there is a person's sense of responsibility and responsibility.
Don't talk much
in Zhihu, there was a question: why do we hate people who love to explain?
A highly praised answer is that if you are wrong, you are wrong, but the explanation is that you not only do not admit that you are wrong, but also try to cover it up.
for example, at work, there are always people who explain that they are late because of traffic jams, but they just don't admit the fact that they get up late.
for example, in meetings, there are always people who explain that their cell phones ring because they forgot to tune the vibrations, but they just don't admit that they are unruly.
for example, when sending a notice, there are always people who explain that they didn't reply because they didn't see the message, but they just don't admit that they don't care.
in fact, a reliable person does not make mistakes, but he who makes mistakes has the courage to admit it and take responsibility.
once, Liang Fengyi, a famous writer, was invited to give a lecture at Peking University.
after she was invited to visit a TV station shooting base that morning, she felt that there was still plenty of time, so she had lunch with the staff of the base.
but Liang Fengyi, who walked up to the podium, said:
"students, I would like to sincerely apologize to all of you! Traffic jams are common in Beijing, but I should not make excuses for myself. I should take into account the time of traffic jams and make full preparations.
if there are a thousand students here, I am late for this hour, for all of you, it is a waste of a thousand hours of production power, affecting the mood of a thousand people! I can only hope for your forgiveness! "
her sincerity not only won the warm applause of the students, but also won everyone's heartfelt love for her.
in fact, people who are really reliable don't talk much.
they are either doing something or not explaining it, because any reason or excuse is actually perfunctory to others.
sometimes, if you want to get real recognition and respect from others, you have to be honest with others.
what is more frightening than mistakes and mistakes is that your blame and blame have exposed your unreliability and irresponsibility.
people don't do
there is a saying: "whether it is to be a person or to do something, the most important thing is to pass the standard of character."
especially in the workplace, a person has the ability again, but if there is something wrong with his character, he can't climb high or go far, and it's hard to make people really feel at ease with him.
there is a short story.
A well-known enterprise recruits senior talents from the society, and a question in the interview is: "Please write down the biggest secret of your original company and what is its value to our company?"
the candidates gave their own opinions on this, and even revealed a lot of the secrets of the former company, but in the end they were hired.A person who handed in a blank paper on this question.
and the explanation given by the enterprise is: perhaps the person who handed in the blank paper is not the strongest among them, but his character is the most qualified.
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Yi Zhongtian once said: "A person, without the bottom line, can do anything." If there is no bottom line in a society, everything will happen. "
if there is no blessing of character, it is useless for a person to have the ability.
in the TV series "Golden years", Yang Ke, the department manager of Zhu Suosuo, is so capable that many rival companies are poaching him.
so Ye Jing, the boss of his Jingyan Group, begged Zhu Lock to keep an eye on Yang Ke and report to him in time if there was any move to leave.
but Zhu Suosuo resolutely refused, saying that Manager Yang was so grateful to her that even if she was asked to resign, she could not snitch on him behind his back.
when Ye Jinyan's assistant warned her that you were a member of Jingyan Group, not his Yang Ke, but Zhu Suosuo still said, think about it, if everyone is a snitch, what will it become?
and when Yang Ke knew that Zhu Lock did not betray herself, she directly gave her a big client who sold the house, which made her make a lot of money.
in many times, people are apt to betray their bottom lines and principles for the sake of immediate interests.
in fact, no matter how sophisticated a person is, no matter how hypocritical and cunning he is, he is not worth a good character, which brings extra good luck to himself and leaves a rare impression on others.
there is a shortage of reliable people in the world.
because it means:
Don't procrastinate, just do it when you say it, and don't drop the ring.
Don't talk much, admit if you're wrong and don't make excuses.
do not act, have conscience and morality, not despicable.
there are many smart people, but they are very difficult for you to trust and entrust.
only reliable people, big or small, are really reliable.
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