The better a person is, the more he knows how to respect others.
what is respect?
in this society, everyone wants to be respected by others.
as Dong Qing said:
"I care more about respect than like, because love often comes from appearance, while respect comes from essence."
therefore, it is very important to respect and be respected.
others respect you because they are excellent
Lu Xun said:
"I thought others respected me because I was excellent, but later I realized that others respected me because they were excellent."
I think so.
others respect you, not because you are good, not because you want to please you, but because others are good.
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once saw such a clip on TV series:
A primary school head teacher called a parent-teacher meeting in his class.
meeting, he found that there was a parent of a student in his class who was his classmate in high school.
that classmate got excellent grades when he was at school. He later got a doctorate and is now working in a university.
after the meeting, the doctor classmate respected him very much and communicated with him about his children's studies.
the head teacher was happy and complacent all day.
when he got home, he said to his wife:
"Today was really fun, you see!" He is a big doctor, but he can't be respectful to me for the sake of his children. "
wife shook her head and said:
"do you think he is trying to curry favor with your head teacher? When others respect you, it's because they know how to be a man, not how good you are. "
the head teacher was ashamed when he heard this.
most of the time, other people respect you, not afraid of you, not to please you, just their habits.
as the Book of Rites says, "A gentleman values others and humbles himself, first others and then himself."
the better a person is, the more he knows how to respect others.
their virtues are excellent, and they all know how to think of others, whether they get along with each other or work together.
treating people with courtesy is just their principle of dealing with the world.
when others respect you, don't be complacent and respond with respect.
in this way, if others are good, so will you.
not proud at the top, not humble at the bottom
what is the highest state of respect?
I think it should be
when in a high position
do not treat others in an arrogant manner;
when you are at a low ebb, you will not feel inferior and belittle yourself.
respect others and respect yourself.
Panasonic, a famous Japanese entrepreneur, once fell ill and several friends came to see him.
when it's time for dinner, he goes to the restaurant with his friends.
he ordered a delicious steak for everyone and everyone praised the steak.
at the end of the meal, everyone finished, and only he ate half of it himself.
the restaurant manager was so nervous that he thought the steak was not to his taste.
when checking out, Panasonic specially asked someone to invite the chef.
then say to him:
"the steak is delicious! It's just that I'm sick and have a bad appetite, so I didn't finish my meal, not because you didn't do it well. I was afraid that the manager would blame you, so I explained it to you. "
after hearing this, the chef was so moved that he made a deep bow to Panasonic.
the best way to respect others is to put yourself in others' shoes.
think about other people's difficulties and solve other people's problems.
the world is rolling in the world.
there are many people who are stronger than us, and there are also many people who are weaker than us.
but no matter strong or weak, anyone deserves to be respected.
respect for the strong is appreciation, but also magnanimity; respect for the weak is compassion, but also kindness.
above others, treat others as human beings; under others, treat yourself as human beings.
as Xu Teli said, "it is not good to humble yourself and respect others, and it is not good to respect yourself and humble others."
the best respect should be respect for others when you are high, and respect for yourself when you are low.
respect others and excel yourself
some people say that when you are rich, everyone will respect you. When you have no money, who else do you want to respect?
but this is not the case. Sometimes, what you get with money is not necessarily respect from the bottom of your heart.
people who really respect others will not be treated differently because of their status.
they treat people peacefully, behave and do things without hurting other people's self-esteem, and their EQ is very high.
I have heard such a story:
there is a boss who takes his grandson for a walk.
on the way, I came face to face with a beggar dressed in rags.
when the beggar saw his boss, he bowed and saluted him immediately.
the boss immediately stopped and made a deeper bow to the beggar.
the grandson on one side was puzzled: "he is just a beggar!" Why do you respect him so much! "
the boss said:
"he bows to me because he has self-cultivation; I bow to him is my self-cultivation.
A good person respects everyone because he knows that respect is a person's most basic courtesy..
in life, you can see that the more incompetent people are, the more they like to pick people's mistakes and hurt their self-esteem.
and excellent people, more know how to appreciate the strengths of others, tolerate other people's shortcomings, and safeguard the dignity of others.
this also makes the results different.
people who don't know how to respect are often hostile to others, and everyone is afraid to stay away.
people who know how to respect often treat others with courtesy, and everyone likes to be close.
to judge whether a person is excellent or not is not judged by his strength, but by whether he can be a man or not.
respect for others is the most basic principle of being a man.
Tai Zaizhi said: "if you want the other person to respect yourself, of course you have to respect the other person first."
people are equal. Only if you respect others, others will respect you.
on the road of life, there will be a lot of people to give you respect.
but the respect is not how good you are, but that others will respect you.
so, at any time, don't treat the respect of others as cowardice.
as Mencius said, "those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them."
you respect me a foot, I respect you a foot.
you respect me, you are excellent; I respect you, I am excellent.
in this society, excellent people will reap good luck and the love of others!