If the heart is sunny, it will be full of willows and flowers.
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Buddha said: love, hate, greed and anger are all cages.
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in this world, the only thing that can trap you is your heart.
if the sun is positive inside, life will be warm and warm; if the heart is gloomy and dark, life will be bleak.
if you think about everything, if you look down on it, you won't be tired.
as Lin Qingxuan wrote in "the most Beautiful Life is Qinghuan":
see the world with a pure heart, live with joy, love with an ordinary heart, and remove obstacles with a soft heart.
things change with the heart, and the environment is created by the heart.
in just a few decades, if we want to be quiet, the only thing we need to do is
forgive everything before going to bed and wake up without asking the past.
learn to adjust, the heart will not be tired
in life, you will always encounter all kinds of unhappiness and unhappiness.
No matter how hard we try, we can't make everything perfect, nor can we be perfect.
since this is the case, you might as well adjust yourself and correct your mindset.
only by persuading yourself is it possible to let go of the past and be full of the future.
as the famous Chinese writer Zhou Guoping once said: "No matter how short life is, we should live with laughter, enjoy ourselves with laughter, and suffer with laughter. This is not a life in vain."
I have seen such a story in the article.
two colleagues sitting together chatted, and one of them asked, "what's the weather forecast for tomorrow?"
the other said, "it will be the weather I like."
the man asked, "how do you know it happens to be your favorite weather?"
as a result, the colleague said:
"I find that the environment is not always what I want, so I learn to face everything I encounter happily." Therefore, I must like the weather tomorrow. "
the same is true of life.
there are always dark clouds in the sky, there are always bumps and thorns in the road, and we never know which one will come first tomorrow or accident.
therefore, do not let the heart be confined to one side of the world, is the most appropriate attitude towards life.
the mind is more open, the vision is more long-term, live a life that does not care, you will have a more calm life.
it is not a blessing to know that the right place is lost.
difficulties are also challenges; frustrations are followed by growth; and frustrations are opportunities.
in this lifetime, if you have the right mentality, everything will go well.
Let bygones be bygones, love and hate at will
everyone has some extremely difficult moments in his or her life.
trough of work, distress of life, emotional frustration, academic pressure.
as the ordinary World says, "in this world, not all reasonable and beautiful things can exist or come true according to their own wishes."
it is hard to avoid regret and regret.
it is all the more necessary for us to learn to let go of ourselves. After crying and laughing, we are relaxed.
to be a man, the more you know how to let go, the richer you are; the more you know how to let go, the freer you are.
Peking Opera masters Mei Lanfang and Meng Xiaodong are just like this.
one is a master of Beijing Opera, and the other is a famous actor in Liyuan. Under the matchmaking of their friends, the union between them becomes natural.
it is a pity that fate is so capricious that beautiful love cannot withstand the training of life after all.
in the face of emotional changes, Mei Lanfang chose to let go, and Meng Xiaodong did not mention a word of the past.
they do not disturb, do not entangle, put the past beauty in their hearts, proudly no longer look back, turn around to pursue the life they want.
some people say that those who miss are like a kite with broken wires. No matter how you pull the strings, the kite will eventually go away.
maybe only by accomplishing each other is another kind of relief.
if you can't control things, go with fate and believe that God has his own plan.
those who are difficult to retain, let go and give blessings in their hearts.
if you can't get through, change your direction, and there will always be your own way.
Life is short, don't get too much joy into sorrow, and don't waste it in loss.
Let bygones be bygones, love and hate are random, so that you can live up to every present.
everything can be expected to do what the heart wants.
Life's ups and downs are common, but despair and decadence will never help.
it would be better to smile calmly and shake hands with life.
Byron said, "A pessimist lives to die, but an optimist lives forever."
Life will give back to you in what way you treat life with what attitude you use.
Yan Youyun, a socialite from old Shanghai, lived at the age of 112. She experienced numerous waves in her life, but she was always optimistic and cheerful, and made her ordinary life as beautiful as a poem.
once, her home was invaded by thieves, and the precious treasures that had been collected for many years were gone.
others felt sorry for her, but Yan Youyun only said faintly:
"all bad things can happen, which is the least serious."
I just lost my belongings, and everything else that was important was unharmed-my life, health and family. "
when she was 109 years old, she was asked in an exclusive interview with the New York Times about the secret of longevity. "Don't be sad about the past, always look forward," she said. "
it is this state of mind that leads to success.She lived a legendary life for 112 years.
writer Feng Zikai once said:
"since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice; since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; since there is no wish, it is better to be relieved."
in life, even if you are ill-fated, as long as you know how to clear the sadness in time, happiness will wave to you not far away.
what kind of state of mind you have, what kind of life you will have.
believe that there is no hurdle in life that cannot be crossed. If your heart is sunny, you will eventually be full of willows and flowers.
May we all have a positive and optimistic attitude for the rest of our lives, open our way and build bridges in the face of water.
, to deal with the ups and downs of life with a smile, to calmly meet the ups and downs of the years.