Division means two defeats, and cooperation means two benefits.
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I have seen a short animated film with moral meaning.
on the single-log bridge, bears and deer came from both ends of the bridge, and no one wanted to let the other pass first.
in a fit of anger, the squirrel and the rabbit broke the rope on one side, and the bear and deer fell into the river.
there is only half of the single-log bridge left to support, and the squirrel and the rabbit went to the middle of the bridge and thought for a moment.
the squirrel squatted down and let the rabbit step on it, and he crossed the bridge easily.
the end of the short film reads: narrow paths meet, co-survival wins.
the same is true of life. If you don't make it easier for others, you won't have a good time for yourself.
the weak break up and hurt both sides
as an old saying goes, "if we set up the stage for each other, there will be one stage after another; if we break up each other, we will fall."
during the Eastern Han Dynasty, the two brothers Yuan Shu and Yuan Shao each dominated the south and the north, echoing each other, and had the momentum of dominating the world.
even Dong Zhuo is not afraid: "but if you kill two Yuaner, the world will be subdued."
however, because of the unequal status of half-mothers, the two brothers have always disliked each other and are unwilling to be outdone.
at the critical moment of the princes' crusade against Dong Zhuo, the two men dismantled each other and competed with each other.
Yuan Shu formed an alliance with Yuan Shao's arch-enemy Gong Sun Zan, while Yuan Shao joined Yuan Shu's formidable enemy Liu Biao and fought against each other all day.
later, Yuan Shu won the title of emperor of the jade seal, but eventually led to the betrayal of his relatives and was defeated by Cao Cao.
Yuan Shao sat on the sidelines all the time and even wanted to step on it.
after Yuan Shu's death, Cao Cao turned to attack Yuan Shao and finally succeeded in "killing two Yuan" and became the biggest winner.
the two brothers work together to win the world, but they dismantle each other, hurting both sides and making it cheaper for outsiders.
all people and things in this world are mutual.
dismantled other people's platforms and dug holes for themselves.
blocked other people's roads and blocked their own roads.
when we pick up the mud and throw it at others, it is our own hands that get dirty first.
the strong make up for each other
I see a question in Zhihu: what do successful people have in common?
A high praise replied, "most people who have made achievements are good at setting up the stage and are better at mending it."
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shared such a story.
Grandpa likes going to the theatre and often takes her to the cinema in his hometown.
for a while, the cinema sang the famous Henan opera "copy Red" for several days.
it is said that the matchmaker sent the warbler to Zhang Sheng's study for a rendezvous. After the incident, Mrs. Cui tortured the matchmaker.
the matchmaker argued strongly, arguing that this was caused by her wife's betrothal and dependent marriage, and Mrs. Cui had no choice but to agree to the marriage.
on the last night, the actor who played the matchmaker was obviously not energetic enough on the stage and sang his lines wrong.
but the words played by Mrs. Cui are just right, and every move is a play.
Grandpa applauded off the stage: "what a master!"
others do not understand: "Why is it high?"
Grandpa said, "the matchmaker is not in good shape today. Mrs. Cui is mending the stage for her."
the blogger finally said with emotion:
"I didn't understand it when I was young, but I didn't realize its true meaning until I was an adult. That is, the partnership is full of prosperity and loss.
High-level people will make up the stage. Because he knows that if something goes wrong, both sides will lose. "
in life, the most lasting relationship between people is cooperation and coexistence.
Hongding businessman Hu Xueyan knows this very well.
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once a poor cloth merchant approached Hu Xueyan and wanted to resell his family business at a low price of 2200.
Hu Xueyan told his men to inquire about the market price.
after the cloth merchants made a comeback, they in turn did their best to help each other, resulting in Hu Xueyan's business legend.
as entrepreneur Li Shufu said, this is not an era in which one can succeed alone.
when you fulfill others, you actually achieve yourself in another way.
harm others, never self-interest.
you can reach yourself only by helping others.
at the end of life, it is spelled as a pattern
what is the pattern?
seeing the success of others, some people just want to dismount each other, while others applaud each other.
when they have achieved a little, some people choose to be narcissistic, while others choose to contend with a hundred schools of thought.
this is the difference between patterns.
Sima Yi said, "along the way, I have no enemies. All I see are friends and division commanders."
A person who knows how to respect and appreciate his opponent is really strong.
two years ago, Huawei independently developedHongmeng system, set off a wave of waves in the industry.
founder Ren Zhengfei was interviewed by CNBC and asked the question "do you think it is possible for Hong Meng to replace Android?"
he calmly replied: "We will not replace Android in the future, but also support the development of Android."
is not unique. In February this year, Li Ziqi attended the Weibo Night Gala and won the title of "Hot person of the year".
was asked by a reporter during the interview: "there have been more and more bloggers of homemade content in the past two years. Are you worried about being replaced?"
she responded generously:
"even if some people also shoot country style, or traditional craftsmanship, I think these are very good things.
I hope to show more people all over the world that China has a lot of excellent traditional culture. "
people who really have a pattern often have a different bearing from ordinary people.
what Ren Zhengfei considers is not whether or not to replace his opponent, but to succeed together with his peers on the road of self-improvement.
what Li Ziqi is concerned about is not whether he will be replaced, but how to better carry forward our traditional culture.
Yang Lan once sighed: "your way of life is your pattern."
the smaller the pattern, the more happy it is to dismantle Taiwan, destroy people tirelessly, and the road becomes narrower and narrower.
the larger the pattern, the more people support each other, grow together, and eventually move forward steadily.
finally, let's look at a cartoon:
as an old saying goes, "divide means two defeats, and cooperation means two benefits."
people who always make things difficult for each other, two people are like tug-of-war, bearing the weight of each other, no one can win favor.
walk the world, always help each other, put aside a little gain and loss in front of you, so that you will not be helpless.
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