Keep changing and meet a better self.
Life is really hard, and you have no choice but to cross it by yourself.
No one in this world can change you unless that person is you.
Confucius once said, 'the superior man asks for himself, and the villain asks for others.
learn to find reasons from yourself. Since you can't change others, change yourself.
the most important thing in life is to be happy.
in the long river of life, some people stop on the bank, some people swim in the river.
the people on the bank don't understand the people in the river, and the people in the river don't understand the people on the bank.
is in a different position, thinking about the problem, seeing the scenery, but also quite the opposite.
We can take a look at this picture:
what is the correct answer?
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the one standing on the left says 4, and the one standing on the right says 3.
is anyone wrong? No one is wrong, but if we have different positions and angles, we have different views on things.
in life, such situations are all eye-catching:
as parents, they hope that their children will stay in their hometown for development; as children, they hope that their parents will not interfere.
when you work, you feel that your superiors are in too much haste; when you are a boss, you think your subordinates are too inefficient;
when you shop, you think the merchant is too profitable; you are a businessman and think the customer is too picky
you can't feel any kindness when you look at others from your own position.
to be a kind person, to look at the world from a different perspective and a different state of mind, life will be simple and happiness can come uninvited.
Zengguang Xian Wen says: "blame yourself with the heart of blaming others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself."
is intended to tell us to reflect on ourselves with the heart of blaming others and forgive others with the heart of forgiving ourselves.
Life is not a single multiple choice question, there is no An or B, the so-called optimal solution must be the result of heart-to-heart comparison.
encounter problems, change the inertia of demanding others, reshape the way of thinking,
Let a life full of thorns,
the flowers smell all over the ground, so that all the darkness of life can be made bright at the next stop.
change the circle
A person's circle affects a person's pattern and vision.
having seen a conversation is very interesting:
someone asked, "how important is a person's circle?"
someone replied, "to put it simply, if you fly with wild geese, all you can see is the vast sky; when you sit with pigs, all you can see is gluttony and drowsiness."
A person tends to become what he or she is in any circle.
as the old saying goes, "those who are close to Zhu are red, those who are close to ink are black, live in good neighbors, and want good companions."
the power of the circle, to a certain extent, changes your values and your attitude towards life.
when you are with people with big plans, your eyes are not just trivial;
with optimistic and open-minded people, ordinary life can also be interesting;
with people who are self-disciplined, they are not willing to fall, but are willing to fail
as the saying goes: follow the fly can only see the stinky gutter, follow the bee will find the flowers.
not everyone is worthy of your deep acquaintance, and not everyone is worthy of your heart.
study with good people, and you will meet a better self.
calm down, make some changes, get close to those who really love life, and meet the next better self.
perhaps the most important person in life will appear in your next new circle.
change your mind
the difference between all sentient beings in the world lies in the gap in thinking.
cut down a tree, if you make a bucket, what type will you make?
Advanced thinkers make wine buckets and everyone tastes them;
Middle-level thinkers make buckets that people use;
low-level thinkers make dung buckets, and people hide.
the same bucket has different levels of thinking, and the value and meaning created is very different.
the same is true of life. What kind of thinking you have, what kind of life you live.
some people say, "Don't underestimate the change in your way of thinking, it will give you a new life."
whenever you take a little action, you will feel the freshness in your blood and the comfort in your life.
people sometimes have a spirit of not admitting defeat. They can lose to age, but not to thinking.
at any time, you can read, exercise, and learn more new things.
put aside the old ideas of the past, break the inherent cognitive experience, and spend more time on practicing thinking.
as the writer Liu run said, "
ordinary people change results, good people change causes, and more advanced people change their thinking models.
whether 40 or 50, what you lack is always a different way of thinking.
jump out of the original pattern, use a new self, to learn new thinking, all the difficulties can be easily solved.
Mr. Yang Jiang said:
"although people are small, life is short, but people can learn, people can self-cultivation, people can improve themselves, people's value lies in themselves."
the most interesting thing about people in life is that they can keep changing and see themselves getting better.
Don't let the value of life stay in the present. From now on, you can control the rest of your life by changing your position, your circle, and your mind.