The human heart can only be really exchanged with the human heart.
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it is sometimes difficult to get along with others.
there are many misunderstandings and contradictions due to their different angles and positions.
there is a saying in Zengguang Xian Wen: blame yourself with the heart of blaming others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself.
only when you give your heart, can you get your heart.
change your heart and understand your heart
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in the "Thirteen invitations" program, Xu Zhiyuan went to interview Cai Lan.
when two people walk in a narrow street, talking and walking at the same time, the videographer follows the camera almost inseparably.
at that time, Xu Zhiyuan asked Cai Lan if he felt uncomfortable.
Cai Lan said very calmly that it was okay to let them shoot freely, and even reminded the videographer to pay attention to safety.
it turns out that when he was young, Cai Lan also worked as a videographer. He said that he had filmed some young stars. At that time, they were deliberately naughty in front of the camera, which made it very difficult for him.
it is precisely because he knows that this job is not only hard, but also particularly annoying, so he has empathic understanding and understanding.
in fact, the hardest thing about being a human being is that it is not easy to feel sorry for others.
if you don't think of others, you don't see other people's difficulties, you don't put yourself in other people's shoes, and it's hard to understand their plight.
there is a saying: "politeness and breeding are not only dry and thin politeness, but also considerate and considerate to yourself and others."
there are many moments when you can give real understanding and respect to others only if you think about it from the other person's point of view.
on the surface, this is a very high EQ, in fact, it is a kind of upbringing and kindness to the bone.
heart to heart, win hearts
in this world, people are all mutual.
what you do to others, others will do to you.
there is a saying in the Analects of Confucius: "do not do to others what you do not want to do to others."
the way you don't like people, others don't like either. The attitude you do not accept will not be accepted by others.
Lv Bu and Liu Bei were friends during the three Kingdoms, but then there was a gap between them, and from then on there was a confrontation between ourselves and the enemy.
so Lv Bu asked one of his celebrities, Yuan Kui, to write a letter to scold Liu Bei, but Yuan Kui refused.
at that time, Lv Bu put a knife on Yuan's neck, but Yuan replied with a smile:
"I only listen to those who are ashamed of virtue, but I have not heard of those who torture people with insults.
if Liu Bei is a gentleman, he will not be ashamed of the insults of the general. If he is a villain, he will certainly repay you in the same way, then abuse will fall on your head. "
when a conflict occurs, we may want to attack and retaliate against each other in the first place. But if you keep entangling each other, there will be no real winners.
the way people get along with others lies in mutual respect.
if you give sincerity to others, they will return it to you. But if you give others malice, they will only get worse.
Don't treat others in a way that you all hate. This will only lead to greater dissatisfaction and intensify greater conflicts.
only if you are willing to show your sincerity and sincerity, the other person will put aside his grievances and hatred, and will be able to make reconciliation and concessions.
compare one's heart to heart
everyone yearns for the understanding and support of others.
only by comparing the hearts of the hearts can we reap the hearts of the people. What a person pays for others, what can he get.
in life, we often complain about the apathy of the world.
in fact, the relationship between people is what kind of cause, what kind of fruit.
it is only when you are kind to others that they will pay you back.
if you are kind to others, they will return some truth to you.
if you don't think of you, others won't think of you.
if you don't share it for others, others won't do it for you.
there is an old saying: "those who love others will always love them; those who respect others will always respect them."
in dealing with people, no matter how many tricks or good tricks, they are not as useful as you to understand and understand others.
after all, the heart can only be exchanged with the heart.
behave yourself, don't bully honest people. Good and evil are rewarded, and people should live up to their good hearts.