If you don't obey the rules, it's hard to make a square.
there is a saying in Han Feizi: "everything has its rules."
means that life is alive, everything is inseparable from rules.
if a family does not have rules, it will become fragmented;
if a man has no rules, he will push himself into a difficult situation sooner or later.
it's hard to make a square if you don't obey the rules.
as a result, both families and individuals, more terrible than the lack of money, is actually a lack of rules.
be polite and courteous to your parents
it is never easy to raise children.
so many parents will encounter all kinds of problems, the most common of which is this one:
"my children don't respect me."
Young children, relying on the affection of their parents, are either angry or naughty.
older children often talk back to their parents, cold war, and even punch and kick, as if they were enemies.
this makes many parents really aggrieved:
I have paid so much for him, why can't I get the child's most basic respect?
in fact, the problem lies in some necessary things. Children do not establish kind and firm rules, so they have no sense of right and wrong and no sense of boundaries in their behavior.
this leads to no etiquette and respect when facing parents.
Zhou Dingwen, an internationally renowned systematic arrangement instructor, once said:
"Real happiness comes from respecting parents the way they are. Children who want their parents to be different can't be really happy, so some people always complain or dream and don't grow up."
in a family, when children no longer respect their parents, the family loses its proper appearance.
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in this way, the whole family is bound to be at odds with each other, and the good luck is naturally farther and farther away.
for children, the rules are strict
Liang Qichao said such a sentence:
"instead of reasoning with your children, you might as well set rules."
the best way to educate a child is to set rules for him from an early age.
know what is good, what is bad, what to do and what not to do. Only when you grow up can you correct and make a difference.
Chen Kaige is famous for his strict tutoring and strict family style. Today, when his son Chen Feiyu sits with his parents, he is well-behaved and does not cross the line at all.
once Chen Kaige took his son to a variety show. When Chen Feiyu pushed the door in, his parents were having dinner and talking.
seeing this, Chen Feiyu did not make a loud noise or disturb him, but gently closed the door and stood quietly in the corner of the door listening to his parents.
it was not until Chen Kaige called Chen Feiyu over that he walked over quietly and slowly.
just a small detail is enough to show the strictness of tutoring.
Graham, a famous American priest, said:
"A child who is allowed to disrespect his parents will not know how to really respect anyone."
such children will be liked and respected wherever they go.
respect for your partner
some time ago, big data, divorced from 31 provinces, went on a hot search.
among them, the statistics on the reasons for divorce are very sad.
the number one reason for divorce is not domestic violence or emotional breakdown, but innocuous "trivia of life".
so some people say:
"although the relationship between husband and wife is the most intimate, they need rules the most."
for example, no matter how much you quarrel, you can't ask for divorce;
for example, don't hit someone at any time;
for example, large and small housework must be shared.
in addition to the original engagement, mutual restraint in life is an important guarantee for happiness.
only when husband and wife work together and work hard, can life become better and better, and feelings become sweeter and sweeter.
and the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, the natural wind and water of the family rises and flourishes.
writer Lemont said:
"everything in the world must be in place in accordance with certain rules and order."
people live all their lives, their bodies are upright, their words are regulated, and their deeds are stopped, so that they will not make mistakes and regret for the rest of their lives.
only by abiding by the rules can we make a family more United and harmonious.
, may you and I all behave, do things according to rules, keep the bottom line, and keep our lives.