To choose a friend is to choose fate! (good article)
To choose a friend is to choose fate! (good article)
Be the best of yourself in order to meet the best of others.

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Zeng Guofan once said: "success or failure in life depends on whether a friend is good or not, so you must be careful."

in a sense, what kind of friend you choose, what kind of life you choose.

the circle determines life, friends change their fate, choose friends, is to choose our destiny!

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those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black

"Confucius Family language" said: "good human settlements, such as entering the room of Angelica dahurica, do not smell its fragrance over time; and evil human settlements, such as entering abalone restaurants, do not smell its smell for a long time."

interacting with people of good conduct is like entering a room full of fragrance, for a long time, you can no longer smell the fragrance, because you have become one with the fragrance.

getting acquainted with people with poor conduct is like entering a salted fish shop. Over a long period of time, you will become very smelly.

therefore, what kind of people you get along with will inevitably become what kind of people you will become in the end.

follow flies can only find stinky gutters, follow bees to find flowers, how far you can go in your life depends on who you walk with.

when you are with diligent people, you will not be lazy; with positive people, you will become happy.

walk with the wise, and you will find yourself extraordinary; walk with the superior, and you will gradually become the superior.

people often say, "it doesn't matter who you are, but who you are with."

in what kind of circle, you will become what kind of person. Meng's mother moved three times precisely because she understood the importance of the environment.



"those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black.

"if you want to be good, you have to be with good people!

who you are with determines the fate of your life

there is a saying in the Policy of the warring States: "birds of a feather flock together."

who you are with determines not only who you are, but also the fate of your life.

Yu Minhong, founder of New Oriental Education Group, was born in a remote mountain village. his dream is to go to Tiananmen Square. He worked hard for this and finally came to Beijing after three times of college entrance examination.

here, he met a group of very excellent people, and his dream was inferior to that of these people.

after discovering his shortcomings, he began to try to get close to the good people.

study hard every day and every night, study hard, practice unfamiliar English, and boldly chat with foreigners in unfamiliar English.

talked about unremitting efforts, he became the founder of New Oriental and has been a household name ever since.

as the ancients said, "A bad friend stays away, and a good friend respects and kisses."

what kind of people you spend with will determine the fate of your life!

when you are with good people, you will become good, too;

when you are with people with positive energy, you will become more and more sunny.

being with reliable people, no matter when and where, will make people feel at ease.

to choose friends is to choose your own destiny. If you are with different people, you will have a different life.

Life is short, choose to be with the right person and try to be a better person.

be the best of yourself, so that you can meet better people

some people say, "Don't chase a horse, use the time to chase a horse to recommend it. When the spring blossoms next year, there will be a number of fine horses for you to choose from."

it's the same with making friends, don't try to curry favor with others, use the time to please others to improve yourself, and when the time is right, there will be good people to go with you.

the friendship deliberately maintained will break up sooner or later, and the friendship attracted by personality charm is long-lasting.

in the Analects of Confucius, it is said: "the gentleman is based on this, standing and Taoist."

people should fundamentally improve themselves and enrich themselves, which is far more powerful than to please others.

Singapore's former tourism department complained to its leader: unlike China, Singapore has many places of interest, including the Great Wall, Qin Shihuang's Terracotta Warriors and horses, and even Egypt has pyramids, but Singapore has nothing.

and the leader replied only one line: "Sunshine is enough."

Singapore's sunshine shines directly all year long, which is very suitable for growing flowers and plants, so the Tourism Bureau has wantonly developed the planting industry.

within a year, Singapore has become a famous "garden country" with an endless stream of tourists.

in fact, what God gives us is the same. If we give full play to our advantages, we can emit the greatest light.

as the saying goes, "planting a sycamore tree attracts the Phoenix."

to be the best of yourself, you can meet the best of others. If you want to have a good life, you must first live the way you like.